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A wide brim black hat worn by a figure leaning on a grand piano, photographed in black and white

What to wear to a funeral

Black felt boater hat with a flat crown, wide flat brim and a grosgrain ribbon bow, Maria Monica London

A hat is not required

Most people at a British funeral are bare-headed, and a hat is worn most often by the family closest to the person who died. Where one is worn it is dark, matte and small enough to sit in a pew.

Deep pillbox hat in dark charcoal felt, front view on a white display head, Maria Monica London

The deep pillbox

Black velour felt boater with a flat crown, wide flat brim and a broad grosgrain band, side view

The velvet boater

Black satin headband with a gathered knot at the centre, angled view, Maria Monica London

The satin headband

Padded black headband of beaded petals with a black birdcage veil, on a display head, Maria Monica London

The veil

In Victorian mourning the long crape veil belonged to the widow and the short face veil stayed with the closest women in the family. That reading survives, and there is a stretch of the day when a woman has no control over her face.

Black is always correct, and what is left to decide is the finish.

At short notice

Pieces held in stock reach a United Kingdom address in seven to ten working days. A piece blocked to measurement takes one to four weeks.